2.2 is probably the most famous scene in all of Shakespeare and is the archetype of many romantic scenes in plays and movies, etc. It reveals much about Romeo’s and Juliet’s respective characters, with Juliet emerging as much more level-headed than Romeo. As if to reinforce that point, Juliet is positioned in the theatrically dominant position–high up, and facing out–while Romeo is suitably subservient–looking up and facing away from the audience (at least to some degree). Romeo’s opening speech is (also suitably) poetic, larded with images connected with light of varying kinds. Also theatrically significant are Juliet’s first two speeches, which are not directed at Romeo but instead are somewhat revealing philosophically. She recognizes that it is a mere name that ultimately differentiates Romeo “wherefore art thou Romeo” {note, she is not wondering where Romeo is; “wherefore” means why). Of course, it’s the fact that “Montague” is also attached to that Romeo name. {An obvious later parallel is the Hatfield-McCoy feud in Mark Twain’s Tom Sawyer–and which side of the feud people belong on is determined solely by name.) Juliet recognizes “that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet”–that is, substitute what we know by the word “manure” for what we know as “rose,” and “manure” would be deemed a pleasant smell, etc.
When the two finally recognize each other (note the effect of the delaying tactic), Romeo shows himself to be impetuous–he’s ready to jump over walls and confront all his enemies just for Juliet’s sake, while with notable brevity she comments “I would not for the world they saw thee here.” She’s also sensible in wanting to Romeo to pronounce his love faithfully, as well as not wanting him to think she gives her love easily and lightly. She thinks he should swear his love “by thy gracious self”, that is, the real thing rather than some external object that has nothing to do with him. And she also thinks (118) that what they are doing is “too rash, too unadvised, too sudden.” Nevertheless, Juliet still wants to go forward, provided that “thy bent of love be honorable, / Thy purpose marriage,” both admirable thoughts in the circumstances (though a truly rational person might yet think all of this is far too hasty–especially parents).
The latter part of the scene has some measure of variety in tone and pace provide by the quicker interchanging of speeches, and by the Nurse’s off-stage interjections. Shakespeare plants the notion that all their plans just might be thwarted if the Nurse emerged at just the right moment. But that is not to be (as everyone familiar with the tale already knew), and so “parting is such sweet sorrow” (a famous example of oxymoron used in the play) for the two lovers.
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